Many of the guys think that they are superior than a girl/women in the family and society. Unfortunately, women also think that they are lower than the men within the society. However, there are no rules and regulations, which mean that a male are superior to a female. We are were born equally having our own sense with a one life. Who said Men in the society have double life time than women? This is impossible to a human life. Once dead your once, some may be reborn in mother’s womb but he/she will be a new life to world.
What make any difference when women walk alone in the street after 9 O’clock? What is our attitudes toward the women who walked at such midnight? We the society thinks that she will be on her business purpose (Yes! She is on her business purpose like the men’s did) or some may think that she the person who creates problems in the society. No...! No...! let the women/men walk at any time on the street as long as they don’t do things which may harm someone’s life as it was the given by nature and What was happened usually to women in public gathering is that they were being looked down upon by the men’s which leading to the women feel insecure to socialize in the society and we the society violated the Right of women’s’. I went to my hometown for winter vacation in Churachandpur, Manipur(where more than seventeen tribes live together and shared culture, values, norms, beliefs).
Each culture has their own traditional festivals and celebrated at the top most performance on every occasion. As we know everyone is proud of our own culture/ traditions, I am belonging from the “Zou” community. I find girls/ women’s were being abused verbally and non-verbally and some were being torture when they went out of the house and join any social gathering at night. Most parents love their daughters’ that they do not allowed them to went out at night. But I find we make our self to being insecure when no one hurts us. I do not mean to say; “being sending out our kids at night is good” it is just what we can get a simple example. Guys in the family were allowed to join the night programs where daughters’ in the family were restricted. Who violated our child rights? It’s the parent’s itself who violated the Rights.
Be strong and confident, there is always a good helper if we are truth and right for what happens and what someone did to us. Most of the girls ashamed of telling out what a guy did bad on her which leading the guy to do the same job again and again and again..! A girl (16) was being raped; she was so scared that her parents and her society would discriminate her if they know. In addition, she may be given a warning by the rapist not telling out the events. Here if I find if parents were in a position to be trust by their daughters’ and have a good bonding relationship their daughter will surely shared the incident happen to her. In order to avoid such events it our responsible to have a strong bonding relation with the family( Mothers’ to daughter’s, Fathers’ to her daughter’ and daughters’ to her parents’) Once such events are hiding, the events will happen repeatedly. So, speak out for you have mouth speak and the rights to make a difference. Never be a shamed of telling out, because we need a change.