What come in our mind when we read in the news paper ” a girl is being rape” ? Don’t we blamed her dress code,Place, time, her characters? But...NO MATTER WHERE, AT WHAT TIME, WHAT SHE WORE OR WHATEVER SHE DID- IF SHE SAID NO- ITS A ”RAPE”. Our conceptions and understanding towards the victims(childrens & womens) promoted the RAPISTS to have a sense of raping our innocent children and women in today's society. We are an idiot to blame the victims rather than try helping her, in which the rapist rape again and again and again. Do we raped a baby girls just because of her dress? Do we raped a women just because she is too flirty- loose characters-street girls? Or just because we try ourselves to show off that guys are stronger-brave enough after a women? No..!!! we are just an IDIOT!!!
It is not a shame to report violence, but it is one of the sweetest source to solve the problems and thr most preventive measures to avoid RAPE. Many of the childrens and womens in our society are hesitate to report to their parents-relatives-elders. We tend to know such bad incident only when the situation is very critical and most of the victim reported only at the last options or knowing herself that she wouldn't be able to manage her problems. It is belief that rape may also happens within a family, husband-wife, friend circle, relatives and in a relationship. We may wonder how ”rape” can be happen in life partner(both husband & wife), but once a women say ”no” and if it is without her consent, its a RAPE.
Have we ever think how many of our beloved children sisters & women's in our societies will have faced such a situation which remained unsolved where whey hide and a shamed to let know their parents and swallowed the pain though its truly hurting and pain. Here, its our duty to have a good relationship with parents’ to daughters’ to parents . A situation in which the daughter will trust us, share us the top secret. If its not we may not be able to find out the hidden dark of our dear one. PAINFUL!!!
When the crimes are not reported, the crime will happen again, and again, and again. We all want to stop ”rape ” case but no one will be able to STOP if the crime is not reported . It was reported that most of the women reported only when they are totally helpless, researcher found that women abused or rape they tend to hide such events. In this conditions the rapist will not QUIT his attitude unless we spread the events. So. Let us be open, do not a shame to stand against the TRUTH, further we will prevent the RAPE case.
”DO NOT BE AN IDIOT;DO NOT BLAME THE VICTIM”